Decorating Christmas trees

Decorating Christmas Tree – For the first time in many years, I helped in decorating a live Christmas tree with my boyfriend Ed. Ed loves Christmas; so, he has put me in the mood by decorating. Our tree is short and full. We decorated it with red garland, purple, red and green beads, colorful lights and many balls including ones from his and mine past. Plus, threw in some of my Star Trek ornaments
We also placed two little white doves representing us on the tree. Not to be outdone we, placed an angel and a lit up star for the top of the tree.
I also placed a crèche which was from my parents. It is a family heirloom from Grammy Mrazik. It gave it the finishing touches.

All in all the tree looked like it came out of the 40’s living room. The glow was very romantic and have been blessed to have decorated with someone I love. Ed placed me in the holiday spirit. No more humbug for me.
There’s work to be done! Celebrating that is.

CRD meeting

I am so excited for my presentation tomorrow at Penn State Great Valley. I will be doing a 20 min. talk on text a librarian. I hope it goes well and there are no technological glitches.

clogging up bathrooms

I can not believe how immature people can be by clogging up the men's bathroom.

Schwinn

I wish I could go biking more. As we move into the colder months, the weather has not made it conducive to go on the trails.

My boyfriend Ed bought me a Schwinn; so, we can go on the rail-to-trails.

I have not been on a bike in over 20 years and all I have been doing is practicing on it.

Hopefully, before the snow comes I will have some mileage underneath my belt.

The word Nice

I went to mass and the priest mentioned how the word, "nice" had different definitions when it first made its way into the English language. During that time, the word meant coy, unscrupulous; far from kind, gentle and sweet of describing in what we mean today.

When did this word change? How many words have gone through this change? I know the word, "gay" has undergone a linguistic transformation as probably many words have. One only has to consult the Oxford English Dictionary in which a history of the word is given from its first usage to the present to prove that point.

Does anyone appreciate what a glorious gift we have been given in terms of language? Do we even care?

I for one am curious and will have to pick my words a bit more wisely.

Just don't call me nice.

R.I.P. Fr. Jacob Welle

Father Jacob P. Welle, M.S.C. 
1925 – 2010

Father Jacob P. Welle, M.S.C., was born on May 22, 1925, in Allentown, to Jacob and Elizabeth (Bender) Welle. In 1939 he entered Sacred Heart Mission Seminary, Geneva, Il, the minor seminary of the United States Province of the Missionaries of the Sacred Heart, After minor seminary, he was admitted into the MSC Novitiate in 1944 at Sacred Heart Major Seminary in Shelby, OH, and made his first Profession of the evangelical vows of chastity, poverty and obedience, on September 18, 1945. He continued his studies for the priesthood at the same Seminary, professing perpetual vows in 1948. On November 30, 1950, he was ordained to the Priesthood in St. Peter’s Church, Mansfield, Ohio, by the Most Reverend Leo Scharmach, M.S.C., D.D, bishop of Vunapope, Papua, New Guinea, and the following Sunday celebrated his first Mass at Sacred Heart Church, Allentown.
Father Welle’s first assignment was in 1951 as Parochial Vicar at Holy Family Parish, Nazareth, PA, in the then Archdiocese of Philadelphia. In 1953 he moved to Illinois and was appointed to the faculty of the Sacred Heart Mission Seminary, Geneva, in the diocese of Rockford, and taught there until 1968. During this time he also studied at Rosary College, River Forest, IL (1958-61) and Loyola University, Chicago, IL (1960-61), receiving a B.A. degree and a Master of Science in Library Science. From 1961-67 he was the Superior of the M.S.C. Community at Sacred Heart Mission Seminary, Geneva, as well as a Provincial Councilor of the USA Province of the Missionaries of the Sacred Heart. In 1969 he was transferred to Pennsylvania, to reside in the newly formed MSC Community, at Center Valley, PA. Under his guidance, the Sacred Heart College Seminary, Center Valley, PA, was constructed as a residence for MSC Priesthood Candidates studying at the then Allentown College of St. Francis De Sales. During all these years, Father Welle was steadily engaged as a full time Librarian of Allentown College beginning in 1969 until his retirement as Librarian Emeritus in 1999. For 25 years, he also served as a weekend Assistant, at St. Agnes’ parish, Sellersville, PA, in the Archdiocese of Philadelphia. During this time he also served as Superior of the MSC Community from 1970-72 and as Administrator from 1976-77. When he retired from DeSales University in 1999, he moved to Holy Family Parish, Nazareth, PA, as its first Senior Priest. In 2005, for reasons of health, Father Welle chose to spend his remaining years at Sacred Heart Villa, the retirement and health care facility of the United States Province of the Society of the Missionaries of the Sacred Heart. Following a brief illness, Father Welle died on Monday, October 25, at Saint Luke’s Hospital, Bethlehem. Father Welle was predeceased by his sisters Bertha (Jenkins) and Catherine (Silfies), and his nephew, David Silfies. He is survived by his brother Hubert and his wife Mary of Allentown, his niece Patricia of Allentown, his nephews Michael and his wife Elise of Fort Mill, NC, Stephen Silfies and wife Alicen of Macungie, and Robert Jenkins and his wife Cathy of Allentown.

Services

Father Welle will lie in state in Holy Family Church, 430 West Center Street, Nazareth, PA, on Wednesday, October 27, from 7 p.m. to 9 p.m. A Christian Wake Service will be held at 8 p.m. with the Father Michael Camilli, MSC, Rector and Superior of Sacred Heart Villa, Center Valley, presiding. On Thursday, October 28, a concelebrated Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10:30 a.m. with Father Raymond Diesbourg, M.S.C., Provincial Superior of the USA Province of the Missionaries of the Sacred Heart, as principal Celebrant. Interment will be in Holy Family parish cemetery. The Reichel Funeral Home, 220 Washington Park, Nazareth, PA, 18064, is in charge of arrangements. Donations can be sent to the Father Jacob Welle, MSC, Memorial Fund, c/o Sacred Heart Villa, 3300 Station Avenue, Center Valley, PA, 18034-9563.

“May the angels lead you into paradise; may the martyrs come to welcome you and take you to the holy city, the new and eternal Jerusalem. “

Wow

It seems like a lifetime that I had posted anything, but when you think about it Sept. 1st is eons ago. I guess I have not written anything for a while because one I have been too busy and two I could not get into the account.

Anyway, I will be ending this blog at the end of the year. I can say I did a year blog. I need to find how I can combine all the entries together and make a chap book.

A year in my life blog has been fun. I can not wait to see where this ends come December 31st 2010.

Friday nights

Wow, I'm back to my old shift on Friday night from 1pm - 9pm. This drudgery of working on a Friday usually makes me down and a bit snippy; however, this semester Fridays are more meaningful.

I look forward to them more because it is the start of the weekend in which I can just unwind with my boyfriend, Ed. I'm so lucky to have him. He has brought much happiness in my life just by who he is. He is always there to support me, make me laugh, take part in goofy adventures, listens to every tid bit of blather I may blurt out as well as being one cute guy.

On Friday nights, he even brings me dinner; so, I do not have to do any cooking. He is every girl's dream and he is all mine.

God bless Friday nights, but most of all God bless Ed.

John Irving

Werewolves, vampires, fairies and gangster genres fill our days in the literature we read, movies we see and mark the headlines of our newspapers. Literature is not dead and this is evident by one of the few prolific writers of our time who is still around: John Irving.

Visit Amazon.com and see that Irving has written novels that can truly be classified as American literature.

Besides being a great author, he is a caring person. He took the time from his busy schedule to autograph a book for my boyfriend's mom. He did not have to do this and could have brushed it aside. I too thank his publicist.

By this simple act, he has made me a fan and I will start reading some of his books instead of the fantasy genre that I have found myself entrenched in.

Glass Castle

Delve into the Walls childhoods. Learn about their early memories as they live with their free spirit parents. As they mature, their will for survival shines forth as they overcome the hardships in their lives. Revel in their success as well as the fact that they never turn their backs on their parents . This book is about loving your family no matter what.

The Strain

Enjoy vampire stories, but think they are a bit too romantic? Then check out The Strain, the first in a trilogy by Guillermo Del Toro and Chuck Hogan. This first book in the series opens ups with a pandemic that has taken over the world; however, the best scientists and the people at the Center for Disease Control are stumped to what is causing it. Although the best minds have not a clue about what is causing this catastrophe, a colorful group of individuals know that all signs point to vampirism, but how can that be since it is all just folklore or is it? Join these brave souls as they rush to save the world from this terrible disease as well as avoiding it themselves.

The Strain is in our browsing collection: BROWSE PS 3620 .O5875 S77 2009 The second in the trilogy is The Fall and takes up where The Strain leaves off and is due out September 21,2010.

Too many decisions

Trying to make a decision is really hard especially when you have to choose out of a lot of good ideas. My boyfriend, Ed and I are discussing where we want to do on our vacation in the next three weeks. The ironic thing is we keep up coming up with more and more ideas on what to do instead of whittling them down.

To help with this quandry, I should reread the book, Blink in where you make decisions on impulses and you just choose.

Maybe instead of reading we should place our choices all in one hat and pick them from there. No scientific logic behind it, but it would be fun.

YAI

I was asked by Ed to present with him at the Young Adult International Conference next year in May 2011. It would be a panel discussion and Ed would also have his friends Carolyn and Bill present as well.

I'm so excited that Ed asked me to present with him. I think the main reason is I'm looking forward to it is that I have the privilege to present along side someone that I care about and is brilliant in the special education field.

Additionally, I have never presented at a conference before. I'm looking forward to doing it because it would give me some valuable experience and I would expand my horizons.

My portion of the presentation would center in on academic library services to the mentally challenged community.

YAI here I come.

Miss you

It's almost a month left before our student workers come back to work as well as the rest of the student population.

I miss them. Even though we complain about them, their presence is missed when we have to do the mundane chores such as changing paper in the printers, checking out books, helping patrons find a book and giving directions.

Sure I am one to work, but I do not want to spend the whole summer doing that. Anyway, I am counting the days until they are back.

Fight Club

I watched Fight Club with my boyfriend Ed. This was my second time seeing it, for Ed his first.

Do not let the title FightClub fool you. Yes a majority of it deals with fighting, but a psychological theme is the main plotof the story. In it Ed Norton's character is not happy who he is and he creates an alter ego, Brad Pitt who is strong, handsome, everything he is not. In doing so, Brad Pitt's character eventually takes over and mayhem erupts.

DO we all want to become someone else and give up the God given personality that he gave us? Do we all crave attention until we can not handle it and become worse off than we were when beginning?

We should live by St. Francis DeSales and be who we are and be that well. I know that I'm going to be the best librarian I know that I could be.

Novenas

Growing up Catholic I do believe in the divine intercessions of novenas. A novena is a form of devotion made up of prayers repeated over and over over a period of nine days in which we ask for an answer to one of our problems.

I said many novenas in my life. This past week a student asked if I wanted one of her novena cards. She said it looked like I needed one. She told me it worked when her aunt recovered after a lengthy illness. She gave me two.

The ironic thing a special friend's mom is not doing so well so in a sense the student saw their need through me.

After she gave me the cards, I did not see her anymore nor did I see her leave the building.

Was the Holy Spirit working through this young woman? Was there divine intervention? I believe there was because it was a way to give hope for someone who is running low on it.

How many of us have been touched by novenas and did not know it?

Somethings are worth sharing

Somethings one does not show the outside world. For me things like presentations where my whole being is vulnerable, written papers, goofy mementos, journals and any private thought, that in my mind if shown would bring rejection. However, as we begin knowing others, this invisible wall breaks down and we slowly allow others a glimpse into our psyche.

In addition, this blog for instance is another way we allow people into our lives. From the outside, it is a splattering of the days events, but from the insiders point of view, it is more than that; a journey into the recess of someone's mind and soul. This blog is also a communication mechanism for expressing what is good and bad in the world

I have recently begun taking this journey and removing obstacles and allowing special people like Ed into my soul. It is hard and scary, but each time a piece of me has been revealed, it is easier the next time around.

For those of you reading this blog entry, have you experienced this same sentiment? If so, how do you handle it?

Legislative day

Last week, I attended Legislative Day for libraries. It started with a boring rally which was indicative by the fact that the emcee for the event was a children's librarian who read down to us from her politically correct book. It did not make matters better that is was close to 100 degrees.

We also met with Charlie Dent, Sen. Casey's aide, and Sen. Specters aide. By the end of the day, I was pooped for I think the heat made me tired.

Even though it was a tiring day, we received a serendipitous tour of the senate library. The librarian was gracious and full of energy; so, I do appreciate the fact that she took time out of her busy schedule to accommodate us. With that said, I was too tired to revel in her generosity.

I did carry the Pennsylvania sign which nobody from CNN, Fox News or NPR saw for the event was not televised. There had to be about roughly 400 people in attendance.

The best part of the day was having a ride home from Ed who dropped me off and picked me up from the 30th street station. It was priceless.

Morning Call article

After six months of waiting for the Morning Call to place my book profile in the paper, they finally did. I was so appreciative and I became a celebrity for a day.

To view the article, please use this link: http://www.mcall.com/entertainment/mc-reader-0704-20100703,0,3255938.story

July Fourth Weekend

Since my last entry, I felt there was a lot of activity going on in my life. I finished up economics class, went to Oregon for a week, D.C. for legislative day, and in this all I'm finally getting back to a regular routine.

Before I knew it, the July fourth weekend was upon me and realized half of the summer was gone.

THis past weekend I had one of the best fourth of July weekends ever. There was no picnic; however, I spent time with Ed and watched the fireworks from his backyard. I enjoyed it immensely. It was just the two of us which felt like were the only ones in the world. It would have been weird if it was as a mass of humanity descended upon us after the fireworks were over.

Vacation

How come one becomes more busy when going away than if they were going to work? Before my Oregon trip next week, I'm acting like a chicken with it's head chopped off. I'm contacting my colleagues to take some of my duties, borrowing kindle and camera, planning trip to D.C. for A.L.A. and the legislative rally and all the while having Economics online looming over me.

Reader's survey

Awhile back roughly six months ago, I submitted a reader's survey to the Morning Call and they never responded back; however, lo and behold I received a phone call today from the paper saying they were going to use my survey.

I'm excited because it will be a great way to do some networking as well as good publicity for DeSales.

My next step is to have my picture taken.

In Remembrance of Fr. Bob

Rev. A. Robert McGilvray,
Rev. A. Robert McGilvray, O.S.F.S., 76, a priest with the Oblates of St. Francis de Sales, died Saturday, June 12, 2010, at his religious communitys home in Childs, MD. Born in Brooklyn, NY, Father McGilvray was raised in Wilmington, DE, and graduated from Salesianum School. He joined the Oblates of St. Francis de Sales seminary in 1953. After earning his undergraduate degree in Latin from Niagara University in 1959, he then completed his theological studies at the University of Fribourg in Switzerland, where he earned a licentiate degree in sacred theology. He later graduated from Villanova University with a masters degree in foreign languages and doctorate in education from the Catholic University of America. He was ordained a priest in 1962 at the Church of St. Michel in Fribourg by Bishop Francois Charriere of Lausanne. He spent many years as a high school teacher, principal and professor of education at DeSales University, Center Valley, PA, where he worked for more than 25 years. Father McGilvray was a devoted teacher, committed to sharing with his students the latest innovations for integrating technology into the classroom, Rev. James Greenfield, O.S.F.S., provincial of the Oblates, said. Whats more, he worked tirelessly to advance the study of St. Francis de Sales. Here, he was an exemplary Oblate and true priest in the spirit of our patron. As a former student of his, I remember him in the classroom as a man of true gentleness. Survivors: The son of the late Andrew and Agnes Barrett McGilvray, he is survived by his sister, Jean Haney, New Castle, DE; and several nieces and nephews. Services: Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 4:15 p.m., Wednesday, June 16, at Our Lady of Light Chapel, 1120 Blue Ball Rd., Childs, MD. Visitation will be held from 2 to 4 p.m. in the chapel. Interment will follow in Oblate Cemetery, Childs. Contributions: In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the Oblates of St. Francis de Sales, P.O. Box 87, Childs, MD 21916-0087.

IKEA

I made my boyfriend, Ed take me to IKEA. I don't think it was a bad thing since I believe he had more fun picking out furniture than I did. When I go shopping I select the first item that catches my eye. May it clothes, books, or in this case furniture.

Ed was the opposite. We went around the store and he made me write down the items that I liked which provided me a ballpark figure on what I would have to spend if I invested in dining room furniture which included table, chairs, credenza, and china cabinet.

Plus, he liked looking at some items for his friend's children.

Nevertheless, I did not purchase dining furniture, but did walk away with two bookcases that Ed put together.

I think the thing I walked away with is that Ed took me to Ikea because I asked as well as he liked driving my beetle. On top of that, he didn't feel good and was a trooper throughout it all

Girlfriend to work day.

Last week it was take your girlfriend to work day.My boyfriend, Ed allowed me as a visitor in his North Penn High School special education classroom.

It was the most fun I had in a while. I got to sit in on all his classes, meet his colleagues and watch the movie Avator in the afternoon with the students.

The main reason I enjoyed it so much is I was able to see Ed as a teacher in full action and how much he bonded with the students, how much he cares for them. They are his children. I know the way he deals with them shows what kind of man he is; that same man who shows his gentleness, his lovingness, to me.

I also enjoyed meeting his colleagues. I'm able to pinpoint names with faces now when he tells me work studies. I also know that he is in good hands with the people he spends eight hours a day with.

In addition I loved being with the students, students who just show you love for any little bit of kindness you bestow on them.

All in all it was a great experience and I can t wait to go back again. I guess if I ask sweetly, Ed might let me come back, but only if I'm good.

Keychains

I keep on telling my boyfriend Ed that life is all about the little things in life. I try to live by that motto and Ed does as well.

One of the sweetest things he did for me out of the many acts is he made a key chain. This key chain contains all momentos of things that remind him of me as well as some things that are just speaking of him.

It contains a cross which shows the foundation of our faith together; a flashlight which I wont be afraid of the dark; a whistle so if I'm in trouble I can use it; an angel because I am his angel; a sea shell for his love of the beach; a gemstone based on his birthday Dec. 3; a pocketknife for all those utensils I might need when he is not around and an engraved heart "forever friends."

This key chain is all in cobalt blue, his favorite color.

Nobody has ever done this for me in any relationship I have ever been in and seeing my Edward do this for me only makes my feelings for him grow stronger. This action shows how much a caring, loving man he is and I'm so lucky to have him. I will cherish him for the man who took the time out of his hectic schedule to make something for me.

As I said it is the little things and I don't need big expensive toys.

Voting polls

As we await next weeks election, I want to touch on the times I worked at the Whitehall elections polls with Mike Fabik and his gang. Besides Mike it was his wife Ginny, Joyce Sterner, my mom and John.

I worked at Whitehall's 4th district in Fullerton. I did this while I was a student at Cedar Crest and at Clarion.

My job as Majority clerk, I had to put each elector's name in the big black book. Not too bad, but for ten hours straight, it became a bit tedious; however, I was paid for my efforts, but taking the day off from work didn't make up for it.

I enjoyed meeting all the neighbors in my community and the camaraderie of us poll workers. Mike always made me laugh and I do miss him.

By working at the polls, I feel I did my civic duty and now its time for others to take up the bat and do the same.

Accomplishments

As I write about things I still want to accomplish, there are a lot of things that I did do. In future entries I'm going to write about things I have done proudly.

Professional Dreams

Here are some professional things i would like to accomplish during my working years. Again, these are in no order of importance.

1. Write a journal article for a library professional journal
2. Do consulting work for library issues
3. Become a library advocate
4. Take classes in legal research
5. Take on a leadership role in PaLA - Pennsylvania Library Association
6. Write a children's book
7. Delve into more technology - converting slides into web format. - Create a media narrative - create a website
8. Sit on a library board

Travel dreams

As I mentioned in another posting is I will travel throughout my life. I've visited many places already, but there are so many places I would love to go because of their exotic location or the romanticism they exude.

Again, these are in no particular order.

1. Portugal
2. France
3. Spain
4. Italy
5. Poland
6. Hungary
7. Egypt


American destinations
1. Maine
2. Tennessee - Nashville, Elvis
3. Mississippi - South - Never been down south
4. Arkansas - south
5. Louisiana - New Orleans
6. Kansas - Meet Bob Dole
7. Kentucky
8. Mt. Rushmore
9. Vermont go skiing

Would love to drive cross country and visit greasy spoons along the way. Talk to real Americans.

Ed you have a standing invitation to go with me.......

My retirement dreams

People wait to the last minute in thinking about retirement and what they want to do when that time comes. Well I have until I have 28 years until I do that, but here are some things I would like to do in no particular order.

1. I want to be there for my family and loved ones. You don't know how long you will have them; so, I want to spend as much time with them as possible. Just talking on the phone, a short visit or lunch would make the world to me. I know I should be doing that now, but I become too busy and forget to make that time happen.

2. Volunteer at the hospitals. It would be noble to help people in their times of trouble.

3. I would like to give communion to the homebound. With my Catholic faith I would want to share it with others especially with those who can't come to church because of health issues. When my grandmother was sick, this was such a comfort when others brought her communion.


4. Continue being free with the outdoors by being in my garden and keeping active with walking or other exercise.


5. Go to mass more than once a week now that I would have the time to do so.

6. Take more photos so I would have mementos to give my ancestors


7. Start downsizing my clutter.


8. People travel when they retire, but to me that is not a priority. I will continue travelling throughout my life. I figure I might become too sick when I get up in age and trips may not be possible; so, I want to do it now.

9. Ministry to the prisons.

10. Read more.

Okay, these are a splattering on what I want to do when I retire. I will add more once I think of more things.

Have any of you thought on what you would like to do when the big R day comes?

Mr. March

Mr. March has officially been found. His name is Edward Grasso

10.Romantic
9. Charming
8. Intelligent
7. Family oriented
6. handsome
5. Funny
4. Devoted to the Catholic faith
3. kind and generous
2. Good communicator
1. Supporter and one who will fight for me.

License to carry

If anyone looked at me, you probably thought I never shot a gun in which they would be wrong. I have tried many things in my life and firing a gun is one of them.

I shot a gun in my life about three times. The times I went shooting I did it ambidextrously. That being said, I was a wild shot. I did connect with the target but not where I was supposed to aim.

Anyway, I don't think the firing range wants me back.

Research clinic

Today is the last Wednesday 3pm -5pm Research Clinic here in the library. With only one more hour to go, we have had a total of six people who used this service. It is a shame because it's a way for us to market ourselves more and assist the students during the last two weeks of classes.

I was fortunate for I assisted five of the six students. I guess they know who the most congenial person to come to when needing help. Ha!

I wonder if other librarians are experiencing this decrease in Reference service.

Junk

I brought some more archival treasures from my parents place. In this latest trove of goodies, there was stuff from about ten years ago which includes letters, cards and photos. Today this stuff is in front of me and I'm wondering why I even kept it. I guess the main reason is that I'm a librarian and I love collecting the printed word for things that contain me.

I'm going to make a concerted effort to purge myself of some of these things that no longer have any meaning in my life. Of course I will keep the pics. of me and anything that has my name on it.

Gardening

One thing I must admit I'm not that efficient in the backyard. I only cut the grass once in my life, raked leaves multiple times, and pulled weeds. Other than that I am a neophyte in the vast wilderness of my yard.

Why all of a sudden do I want to garden? Well for one, I have my own place and I would like to put my own personality into it. According to my friend, Ed he says, " I have the perfect size for a mini garden." Plus, Ed is a master gardener; so, he is going to help me. He already bought me some plants such as tomatoes, dill, daisies and others.

I'm looking forward to it since I never really undertook a gardening project. I assisted my mom when we started a garden when I was around eight. Our neighbor, Mr. Stone had helped us. He was a spry 80 old man who was amazing with all his gardening abilities.

Unfortunately, we only did it one year since my mom did not want to invest time into next year. The garden patch eventually became the driveway.


Another reason I'm excited about the project is my friend Ed will be helping me. It's always more fun when you have someone to enjoy it with.

Activities for little tykes

My little nieces have signed up to play, little Tykes baseball. This will allow them to interact with other children around their own age.

I remember being their age and some of the things my parents signed me up for. When I was five, I was a Brownie and and when around age six, they had signed me up for Camp Whitehall, a week summer camp in Whitehall Township.

Anyway, its nice to reminisce and remember that we were young once too.

Time

It takes so much time in life to do the things we like to do. One of those things is writing in my blog, but for some unbeknown reason I can not keep up with it and I leave gaps between an old one and my latest one.

I think it is because I have so much good things in my life I forget to hilight them in my blog.

I will try to do better. I must.

Cooking

One thing I never had an interest in learning is how to cook. In my life, I have a Mom who is a great cook and baker, while my Dad is no slouch in the kitchen either. So, why should I bother? I'll just let them cook for me for the rest of my life.

With that juvenile mindset, I had a wakeup call when I moved out on my own and needed to cook so, I can stay alive. Plus, when I have company, I will need to cook for them.

Alas, where should I begin. I've started easy with our DeSales cookbook and started using the crockpot that Aunt Nancy and Uncle tom bought me.

I am proud to say I can make chicken, pasta and some tasty treats along the way.

I guess I never wanted to cook mainly because I did not want to grow up.

NCAA Basketball tournament

Butler almost beat top rated Duke in the College basketball tournament by bowing out at 61-59. This would have been one of the best Cinderella story in all of college basketball history. Congratulations Duke for being college basketball's # 1 team, again.

Mr. March

Okay this is the moment you all have been waiting for: did I meet Mr. March?

Well I have been able to reconnect with someone I used to know. Does that make him Mr. March? Well, that would be unfair to him to say since nobody wants the ramblings of a psychic to define one's relationship.

Predicition about Dog

Way back in the distant past, I had gone to a psychic and she mentioned that there would be a little dog in my life. Eight months into my future, it occurred to me that the little dog is my neighbors: Jarret and Mandy. I could not tell you what kind it is but it is little and hardly barks, for that reason, I I forgot that they have one.

In Society Hill, there are lots of dogs hardly any cats. So, the psychic's general prediction which anyone could have predicted came true.

Okay, one prediction I can scratch off my list.

Easter Sunday April 4th 2010

Easter Sunday 2010

Easter Sunday in a synopsis:

Went to 9:30am mass with my sister-in-law, Tara. She went solo because the girls are sick and Bob went to 7:30am with my dad.

Monsignor Kozel had mass. I enjoyed his homily. In it he mentioned, that when we sin or if bad things happen to us, Jesus our Lord, turns the ugliness into good.

Bob, Tara and the girls came to my folks as so did I, and we emptied the loot that the Easter Bunny left us.

Went to cousin Donna Wagner's house for lunch. Cousin Dale was down for fishing yesterday; so, he decided to stay another day and then go back to Virginia, where he is working. His family is in Maine.

Then went to Uncle Steve "Peak" Mokris' house for a visit.

Then I went home to my place. It's where being all alone for my first Easter.

Amen. Thank you Jesus for dying and rising for my sins! Alleluia ! Happy Easter.

Resarch clinic

If you are a librarian, you are aware of the library listservs. In one of the threads, it discussed "Research Clinics" in the library. This is where you would set up a time and have people drop by the library for some research assistance. This would be different than the research assistance since this would be done in a large group instead of one-on-one.

For the next five Wednesdays, we will be trying out these research clinics to see if we can bring in the students.

Today for our first Wednesday, we have had one student. Hopefully more will come.

Facebook woes

Right now I'm down on Facebook. It has nothing to do on the technical end, but more on the emotional side. The past couple of weeks, all I saw were posts praising the Obama health care bill that eventually passed. It is your right to support it and write about how great it is, but your rights end when you start slamming the other side who do not share your same sentiments! My people on Facebook are supposed to be my friends and I don't appreciate attacks on what I believe in.

Politics aside, I also see Facebook as a way to advertise your troubles. Don't get me wrong, I will help all of my friends in times of trouble; however, it breaks my heart when I read them and wish I could make their hurt go away!

My hope is to try to make Facebook a more supportive group by offering insights, book reviews and words of encouragement when needed. Is anyone else up for this challenge?

Pampered purse

My friend Ed and I were discussing home parties that women have been invited to lately: from Arbonne makeup to crayola craft boxes and anything in between. We discussed that women are drawn to these parties because they feel obliged to come since their friends or family members are the ones having them. Plus, they then feel guilty to buy some over priced items that they can find at a retail store.

I feel these parties are like the quilting bees of long ago. Women need a way to bond, gossip and share life stories with the ones in their lives. Plus, while they are hosting, they also can make some money on the side.

You don't see men sitting around passing around the newest power saw tools or athletic equipment that they must own. No, if men what those items, they go out and buy them.

Don't get me wrong, men do have bonding nights where they drink, play cards and say goofy things.

Will there be a day when somebody markets one of these home parties to the manly population? If they did, and a man was invited, he would probably say, I'll have to ask my wife; she, takes care of those things.

Ed, thank you for the title of this blog. Pretty pithy!

Blogs

I know I have two followers on my blog, three if you count me, but I know some of you are reading it, but have not logged in to become a follower. If you are following me anonymously, drop me a line on FACEBOOK or @ michele.mrazik@desales.edu.
I would really like to know what you think about the blog, not me.

Think Twice

I went to another Lisa Scottoline book signing with Aunt Nancy today at Sam's Club of all places.

This was the fifth time that I had seen her: two at her home, one at Cedear Crest, Barnes and Nobles and today. I mainly went because Aunt Nancy became a fan through me and this was her first signing; so, I was glad to take her.

Out of all the book signings, this was probably my least favorite. It had nothing to do with Lisa, but the overall atmosphere was not conducive to a book signing. Sam's Club is just a warehouse and having a book discussion there was not soothing or stimulating. Plus, you had to receive a one day membership pass at the Club, if you wanted to purchase the books.

Although the atmosphere was not perfect, Lisa was gracious. Always giving hugs and treating you like one of the family. In addition, she also brought her two little dogs with her. This was a first for a signing for me.

This book signing put me in the mood for Book Expo which will take place in May.

Anybody else have a book signing story similar to mine?

Going Solo

I'm going to a Pampered Chef bingo charity event tomorrow at Northampton High School. Even though I'm not into Pampered Chef, it is a great way to win some valuable prizes. Plus, I'm supporting my sister-in-law Tara who is sponsoring this event for her Marketing DECA club.

I'm the only one going from my gang. Everyone else seems to have plans; so, it will be me and a couple hundred people. I don't mind going by myself. It gives me a chance to relax and I don't have to make sure that anybody else is having a good time.

I've gone to many charity events by myself. It is so refreshing. Are we so afraid of being in our own element that we can not stand the moments when we are alone? How many of you out there have done things solo?

Economics online in two weks

New posts...

Good grief. I haven't been keeping up with my blog due to a myriad of things going on. One being is my MBA class is over and the last couple of weeks I expended a lot of time and effort towards it. Thank God it is over.

Twelve weeks were enough of the course. It was starting to become boring and stale.

I'm looking forward to my next class, Economics with Dr. Amy Scott which is online. This online class will have many challenges to it, but having done presentations through Elluminate, I know I won't have many problems.

Even though I'm a people person, I am looking forward to the anonymity of just being a voice out in cyberspace. It will give me experience and a feeling of how online classes work.

Another reason I'm excited about this course is that it is being taught by Amy Scott. I know Amy is great teacher and person; so, I'm lucky to be part of her classroom.


Knowing that I'm not the only one to have signed up for an online class, I wonder if my experience will be the same as all of you who have done it................

March Madnesss Baby

Today 64 of the best college teams around the country will be participating in the annual college basketball playoffs. This two week eventwill culminate with the final four in Indianapolis.

About twenty years or more, I used to love watching these games. I used to fill out the brackets, predict winners, watch the games with family and make it another holiday.

Again, how can an uncoordinated woman like myself become involved in all the hoopla? I think the main reason is my brother played basketball and it was a way to connect with him, my father and the rest of the family by talking bball. Plus, through my brother and living in the Lehigh Valley at the time when basketball was creating dynasties, we were able to see talented men and women play in these games. We had a connection to to them either by knowing them personally such as the McCafferys, Marciniak, Polaha, Peapos, and Lisicky or just knowing them in passing, like McQueen.

I was so good at talking basketball I knew a lot of stats, the players names and everything in between.

Anyway, one moves on and I stopped watching due to becoming too busy in my own life and apathy. I developed resentment towards these athletes who would be receiving a great education and squander it by dropping out and going on to the pros. Although they would not finish they would receive multimillion contracts from playing in the NBA.


As everyone matures, I did too and I no longer harbor these feelings; however, I agree with Dick Vitale and think there should be a feeder program in the universities for these young men that take them to the NBA.

So, as the tournament proceeds, I will be looking back at my own basketball viewing history with nostalgia, and thinking, it's been a fun ride baby!

click click hurrah!

Here a letter, there a number, a character all exploding in my brain as I try to remember my passwords for a litany of functions I end up doing every day. It's not that these strings of key strokes are hard to remember, but seem to unravel in my head that when impulses go to my fingers to type away, they end up coming out wrong.

So sometimes it is my fault; however, it can be the fault of the site that changes with no advanced warning or they do not like your password anymore.

Mix this techno combo of mistakes which then half the day is spent trying to find the correct login, calling support and then do it again for the 100th time.

How many of us out there does it happen to on a daily basis? Are we a sea of mindless sheep just typing, going through the hoops and trying to complete our work for the day?

MBA

I was officially admitted to the DeSales MBA program and I almost have one course under my belt. Time has gone fast and now with only two weeks remaining I'm finding myself starting to stress. I told myself at the beginning of the course I wouldn't take it seriously, but still I want to do well.

I still have a major paper due and a marketing plan to finish. I'm not worried about the test. Although I feel a bit unsure on how to proceed with the marketing plan,I do have an example of one, but it is not fitting my specific industry.

Only eight days remaining. Help!

Miracle of St. Anthony

A friend of mine wondered why I did not place more entries about books on my blog and I did not know the answer. Therefore in honor of my first book entry blog and a timely title for March Madness, I would like to comment on the Miracle of St. Anthony.

This book title was recommended by my brother. Even though I m a librarian, one of my job duties is not ordering titles in the top twenty genre; so, I gather my book titles from friends and family members.

By the sound of the title, Miracle of St. Anthony's one would think it is a religious story. Far from it. This is a basketball journey about a group of young men destined to go nowhere. However; this all changes as these adolescents try to become part of Bob Hurley's basketball dynasty as St. Anthony's high school in New Jersey.

Now one would wonder why I a white middle class woman would want to read a story like this. Well I was not a fan of Bobby Hurley Jr. when he played for Duke, and since he played for his dad, Bobby Sr. at St. Anthony's when he a was a teenager, I wanted a reason to like him or dislike him even more.

The story, focused on the present about these man children with all the problems of living in the gritty city, they try to overcome their problems and play basketball which they know best. Nobody expected them to win a game let alone become undefeated. Even though the story focuses on the present, we are brought glimpses in of the past when Bobby Jr. played for his dad and it was no picnic.

This winning streak is no accident. They needed the guidance, skill and tough love from their coach, Bob Hurley Sr. Bob did not treat them with kid gloves but gave them the desire to win and fight on the court as well as to make their lives better on the outside.

This story gave me respect for all the hard work it goes into in making championship teams and coaching vulnerable youth. It also gave me a new respect for the Hurley family as well.

So if you are watching March Madness this year, take the time to think where these young men have come from.

Lost

Even though I have not been a faithful Lost viewer, I do think it is brilliant television. I was having a conversation with a friend who was telling me how Twin Peaks in the 90s was all about God.

I could not make a valid statement about it since Twin Peaks was on after my bed time; however, I could say the same about Lost.

One is the island that they are on is a utopia where certain individuals maladies and insecurities are all washed away and they could start anew. Locke came in on a wheelchair and after the plane crash he was able to walk without any assistance; while another character was suffering from cancer and on the island she is no longer having any pain from it. Is the island heaven?

Or could the island be purgatory where the survivors are faced with their past sins? Sawyer's seedy past is always haunting him; while Kate is always looking for redemption since she burned her house down with her stepfather in it.

The topic of God is covered in the character of Jacob. Some of the survivors and the inhabitants seemed to have followed him and he knows their past present and future. Unfortunately, Jacob is dead and the search is on for his replacement.

Splatterings of Lost's religious undertones has continued on. In the last episodes, it seems that Armageddon has taken place. Evil spirits have taken on Locke's dead form and he is gathering his followers. Unfortunately, these people have lost their free will such as Sayeed and Claire and have now gone on to the dark side. The people who have not joined such as Hurley and the Doctor are coming together and preparing for the battle. This will be interesting where the last 9 episodes will go.

Big Bang Theory

Although I usually do not much television except for LOST and sometimes Dancing with the Stars or anything on the lifetime channel, I did tune into the Big Bang Theory under the ravings of Friends.

It is about four geeky guys who find a ring that was used in the "Lord of the Rings" trilogy by Peter Jackson. These four friends become obssessed about the ring and each have plans for it. Three go so far in literally hanging onto it; the last one on gets to keep it; while another takes on the form of the golem and calls it "my precious." This is where the male psyche came in with bathroom humor and sexual innuendos.

At theis point, I could not wait for it to end. I must admit it was a clever idea.

On that note, I wonder how it would turn out if the four friends were women. They would probably give it to each other, saying "No, I don't want it you can have it." This selfless attitude, would probably be superseded by mailing it back to Mr. Jackson.

My green beetle AKA Dear Little Friend 1714

I had to take my lime green beetle aka DLF 1714 (number on my license place) into the garage for some work. It seems that when I had gone over a few potholes, it loosened the belts on one of the tires. This is an easy fix, just by replacing the tire.

While here, I am having my inspection done. Plus, I called Erie Insurance to tell about my mishap in regards to having the cracked fender fixed. With little trouble, I have an appointment set up with the Auto body shop, which has a satellite office located right in Gilboy Ford.

I can not believe how simple the process of working with Erie has been. I told them about the mishap and within an hour, they were working on the claim.

I have brought my office to the garage and have set up shop. It's a new experience seeing the people coming and going all concerned about their child.

Additionally, from time to time I am visiting the showroom. The VW cc is a fine sleek looking car and had my pics. taken in it by one of the sales reps.

My beetle has almost 52,000 miles on it and it is going on six years ago. Although, I am not up for a new vehicle, the cc is one I would be interested as well as the Subaru Legacy. When out in Yellow Stone, I rented a Legacy and was just blown away by the luxuriousness of it. I guess I'll find out in a few years.


With the major items being taken care of, I can get down and start washing it.

Oscar Who?

There are many people named Oscar. Oscar Wilde, Oscar De La Hoya, Oscar Mayer, and Oscar the Grouch to name a few. Although people may or may not know the above mentioned names, it seems society remembers the golden award, named oscar to the Hollywood elite for their award winning roles they undertook this year. This Oscar award event, known as the Academy Awards makes it's way to our television set every year around the first weekend in March.

Last night March 7th 2010 was no exception. This television event was on for three and a half hours; I did not watch any of it.

The main reason I did not tune in is I am apathetic in seeing these actors receive another award and we as society are to bow down to them for this achievement. Don't these entertainers receive a big enough salary for their work? Don't we pay enough money at the theater for their sacredness?

Okay, my biggest complaint is that they are grossly overcompensated. My next annoyance is that some of them are too political. Sure we can all have our political views, but don't espouse them on tv and make us think that the world is bad a place. They are not politicians and I do not want to hear their jibberish any longer.

I'm not trying to paint all entertainers as whiners. There are a few good ones such as Christine Taylor and Ben Stiller. I use their names maybe because Christine graduated with my brother and she makes the Lehigh Valley proud. With that said, I am proud of our alumni who are making their way into the big screen. Zack on It's Complicated and Marnie S "As In the World Turns" make DeSales look good. I hope to hear more about this talented, humble couple.

Even though I do not watch the Award ceremony anymore, I do participate in our awards contest for our students. We offer them two movie tixs to the Rave for the one student who can correctly name the winners in the top categories. It is fun and circulation supervisor Gloria Biser creates displays for this event.

I guess the Oscars can be fun if you make it that way. Maybe one day I'll receive my satisfaction when a librarian receives an Oscar statue.

It all began

I saw the movie, Julie & Julia this past year and thought I could do the same. However, I did not know what I could do my daily posts on. Then as a whim, I thought I could do a daily dosing of what the psychic had said almost a year ago and see if any of it came true. This was more in jest and it was not to come off like I'm into the New Age movement or nothing of that sort.

During the time I have been posting, I did run out of steam and have been putting my life's battles and victories in it instead. It has been much better reading and more exhilirating.

Ten Days

In ten days it will be St. Patrick's Day when everyone will have the luck of the Irish on their side. However, for one of our alumna, Joanna A. has another countdown she is looking forward to. She will become a postulate in the Carmelite order in Denmark, WI.

I think it takes great courage and strength to devote one's vocation to God. By becoming a Carmelite, this young lady, will no longer be able to use the phone, the computer, send email or snail mail. She will only be allowed to see her family three times a year and during these times, a screen will separate them.

Meeting her parents and brother years ago when we were going on the Michigan Habitat Humanity trip, I know how hard it will be knowing they love her so much and want to show their affection.

God bless this young woman and all people who choose their vocation of being God's servant. It is not something I would want to do. At least I now have someone being a spiritual hotline to our Creator.

Ten years ago

It was ten years ago last month that my friend Jeff walked off the face of the earth and did not tell my friend Deb T. or me where he was going. All I got on the phone was this number has been disconnected and the new number is .... Well the new number was in Davie, Florida, but I copied the new number down incorrectly; so, when I called the Fl. # it was wrong.

Well being the librarian I am, I did find out he was a business librarian in a Florida college and that was about it. Recently, I did find out he was married to the woman he was seeing while in WV.

Knowing Jeff, he did not want to tell Deb or methat he got married.

Considering the three of us were friends and that we helped him get through grad school, you would think he would have told us, or for that matter invited us to the wedding. Nah, he was on the cheap side and we always told him. Plus we always ragged on him that northeastern PA was so much better than the state college area and the western part of the state.

I'm glad he's working and that someone else is nagging him. I'm not mad at him, but a little annoyed he would not think of sharing his good news with his friends.

Yes, it was a little immature, but hey I did some childish things and I'm trying to repair the hurt that I caused.

Two postings.

Sometimes I'm such a moron. I had two postings, one was blank and the other one was about me feeling like Job, from the Old Testament. Of course I deleted the wrong one.

Mr. March

Ok, my psychic said I would meet someone in March. Did that include someone I used to date? Hmmm...... I'm wondering because I have been in contact with one of my old flames.

Friday nights

I work Friday nights at Trexler Library. This is my one night to work a week. Sometimes it bothers me to be cooped up here when everybody goes home a 5pm for their weekend; while at times I enjoy being the only one on. It's really peaceful.

Let's face it the library is not busy on a Friday. The students are already starting their weekend the night before. The ones that do come in are the lonely patrons who need someone to tell their troubles to. Fortunately, I strategically have our students listen to them.

Besides the lost souls, there are the frantic folks who come in around dinner time and stay to the bitter end working on projects that are due that next week.

Anyway I've been doing this almost eleven years. You got to love it!

Cataloging

Even though I am not a cataloger I do have to catalog the DVDs that come into the library after they have been purchased. Who would guess of how much time goes into preparing them for the shelves.

We have our DVDs set up like a video store. The original cases are left in the circulating section; while the DVDs themselves are stored behind the Circulation Desk.When processing I have to find a duplicate case for the DVD as well as photocopy the cover.

As of now, we ran out of duplicate cases and I had to ask Phyllis to order me a 100 single and 100 double cases. We're ordering that many since next year there will hardly any money available.

Just another insight of a librarian's daily work.

Eulogies

Tara's grandmom died this week and the eulogy was one of the most beautiful I ever read. I should ask to print some of it in this post; however, in the lines I read one stood out from all the rest: Moms never leave. Our blessed mother never left our Lord's side and I know my mother and grandmothers would never abandon me.

As an exercise in egomania, maybe I should start writing my own eulogy.

Compliments

Compliments come out of nowhere and when you do receive them, it makes your world a bit brighter. My brother passed onto me that Katie Cassesse, my real estate agent told him, "I was her favorite customer she ever had." It brought tears to my eyes knowing that real estate people see tons of people on a regular basis and I was one of her fav.

JOB

Reach out

It seems my reaching out to an ex does have an advantage. For Valentine's Day weekend, one sent me a Valentine's ecard and told me he still has feelings for me.

I was touched because nobody else remembered me for this fake holiday and I still care for him.


This is just what I need. I would like to try again. Hopefully, if we go slow, it will work out.

Forgive

I am not perfect. I am still working on broken relationships and hope one day they will be restored. I ask for that special grace for this to happen. I know how Job felt when his friends turned their backs on him.

It is not easy, but it is better living with peace in my heart than anger and hate to take up space in my life for free.

Anyway, I keep on trying........................

Contemporary masses

God is always guiding me and asking me to improve in some way. I do not appreciate contemporary masses. I was a bit dismayed when I saw a man carrying a guitar into the church. Good grief this is going to last forever. I am a fan of the quiet masses when there is not much singing. I feel more at peace.

However, God wanted me to listen as the choir practiced before mass and I was actually moved to tears by the beautiful serenade of angelic rhythms. Plus, he sent one of our DeSales students to sit by me in the same pew. This young man is so devout that I was again moved to tears.

Thank you God for opening my eyes to the beauty of worship, no matter what form it takes.

Amen

Super what?

It's Super Bowl Sunday 2010 in Miami

It's the Indianapolis Colts v. New Orleans Saints

I don't care anything about football, but if I had to choose a team it would be the Saints. The only reason I would choose them is because all that New Orleans has been through in the last few years due to Hurrican Katrina. This would bring pride back to the city and have the people believe in something again.

Snow

We're in the midst of having a blizzard today: 2/7/10. Still coming down at 9am.

Earrings

Have you ever put a sweater on and one of your earrings came out? Well, I thought that happened since when I had my sweater on there was no earring in. I then said, "St. Anthony help me." Nothing happpend and being a bit down, I whined and asked, "Why won't you help me?" Lo and behold I looked down and my earring was on my desk.

I'm sorry for my lack of faith. Plus, for caring too much about a material object.

Think of others

When I am feeling down, I try to focus on other people and assist them in any manner God sees fit. Today I helped a library science student, one of our alumni gather some resources for a project he was working on. Of course he could have come any day of the week, but he came on a day when I really wanted to help someone.

Thanks John G.

Small miracles

God looks after my financial well being. As mentioned earlier, my quilt is ready and with it, I need to pay Pat for her work. My parents gave me money towards whatever I need; so, I was going to put it towards the quilt. I only needed another $100.00 and I would be set. I easily could have taken it out of my checking; however, I do not have to do it. In the mail this evening, I received a check for $100.00 for some of the faternal activities I am involved in.

Interesting to have the check come on the day when I needed it. Pretty clever. Thank you God.

Friends on FB

I have 220 friends on Facebook. These 220 people are made up of relatives, colleagues,staff, faculty, alumni, administration and friends, friends of friends.
The funny thing is how many of these people are actually a friend in the true sense of the word or are they only just a number?

In some instances, I hear more from people I hardly know than relatives.

Three weeks

I can't believe the Morning Call did not choose me for their book section profile. In this profile, they ask you about ten questions about your reading habits, and then print it in the newspaper.

Some of the profiles they have chose are not so good; so, I don't know why they didn't choose mine. One I think it is because my answers were a bit slanted in that they weighed heavily on the vampire genre. Or they have a deep seated resentment against librarians. Hmmmmm!

I must call to find out the real reason...............

Back in shape

I rejoined Fitquest last month. I went back because I like the owners, Barry and Laurie LoveLace, the atmosphere is warm, clean and friendly, and the offering of classes are things that I could not find at any of the other neighboring gyms.

Plus, the price is great at $35.00 a month. You can't beat that.

Since I live farther away than I used to, I push myself to go three days a week. It is something I need and I really feel better when I go.


Thanks for taking me back B&L.

Everending quilt

My everending quilt is done. I was working on it three years and only had about ten blocks to prove for my sweat and tears. I was hand quilting it. Not wanting to give up the time I had invested in it, I asked Pat Blum to finish it. It took her year and next week is when I'll be picking it up.

This project started with me wanting to make two baby blankets for my twin nieces who are four by the way. However, the woman in charge said, it would be nice to make something for myself instead. Ok, mind you I'm not a fabulous sewer, I thought this was something I could handle. So week after week, I trudged up to June's house and spent about three hours mercifully trying to sew a knot.

For all this pain I endured, more discomfort was added with me paying $75.00 every ten weeks. After about three years June and her husband Jay moved to MA and I was left with my quilt pieces, the other paying clients and our determination to finish. My motivation went out the window about six months after June left; so, it was fate when I met Pat and gave her my project.


Hallelujah! I can't wait to place my quilt on my bed.

Lesson learned, start off small. Those baby blankets would have been a perfect start.

Last day of January

Well Mr. January did not show, but had two dinner dates which proved fruitless. I'm already hooked on March in which is the next month I might meet someone according to my psychic.

I also picked up a horoscope book which said, this is the year I may be single for the last time. It also confirmed March as a good month.

Okay 29 days until the third month of the year.

Apport

Apport is when things miraculously appear and nobody knows where they came from. My mom said when I was in the hospital as a child, a doll appeared and had not a clue of who brought it. My dad said it was probably from a neighbor, but the neighbor was not identified. When I was born, my Mom's Uncle John promised me a doll, but he died when I was six months old. Could it have been from him?

From time to time I notice things appearing, but I would really like to know what happens when things miraculously disappear. I have a long list of items I can't find, but don't know where they are.

The truly amazing story of things disappearing is when I left my watch on the coffee table in the morning and when I had come home in the evening, it was not there. I tried looking for it, but to no avail. A year later I was cleaning under my bed and there was my watch. Some of you naysayers may conclude I was being careless and somehow landed under my bed, I was drunk or some other bizarre excuse.

I recently found out that the word is "asport."

Hencing finding my watch, there are countless items I can't find. Please say Anthony come around, things are missing and must be found.

Amen.

Myers Briggs Personality Test

ESFJ - My results from the Myers Briggs Personality Test: "Seller". Most sociable of all types. Nurturer of harmony. Outstanding host or hostesses. 12.3% of total population.

I would agree with this profile analyze. I'm always making sure people are having a good time and all is well in the world.

Famous ESFJ profiles: Terry Bradshaw, Sally Field, Danny Glover, William Mckinley....

Almost over

Only ten more days until January is over and no sign of Mr. January. Not even close. I'm going to start looking at March. This is when the next appearance of someone will walk into my life.

During the last few days, I realized, I may not find someone. I am okay with it. It may not be fair; however, I am not going to settle for second best.

Mr. March

January is almost over and no sign of Mr. January. My psychic did say I would miss him if I harbored any feelings for someone from my past. Unfortunately or fortunately, whatever way I look at it, this is true. However, March will bring someoneinto my life.

Okay I'm thinking spring.....................

Just a reason

There's no rhyme or reason for anything let alone me writing this entry. God protect and guide us.

40 years ago

Forty years ago my Grandmother's oldest brother, John Pecka died in a car accident. The reason I bring this up is one I was only six months old and I was promised a dolly,but never got it; however, on a more serious note, Uncle John predicted his own death.

He told my Grammy, that when that they were at a party dancing, that the next time she would see him was at his funeral.

That weekend he was hit by foreign exchange students.

My Uncle John did have the sixth sense. He talked to his deceased parents and was a follower of Edgar Casey. He had copious notes on his ability, but these were destroyed by family members after his passing.

He was just a regular person like all of us. I wonder when we are united in the next life, we will understand his gift.

I wonder if any other relative has this psychic ability.

SWOT analysis

In my management class, we talked about how companies created SWOT analysis. You can even do one on yourelf. So here goes:

STRENGTHS - Intelligent, thin, gentle, kind, caring, happy, friendly, nice smile

WEAKNESSES - Doesn't speak up enough, dry sense of humor

Opportunity - Explore new worlds through the Internet, Exercies, Classes

Threats - Getting old. Boredom

If anyone has any ideas on what to add, please feel free to do so. You may even want to do one yourself.

March

I know I am jumping the gun, but it is never too early to start planning for spring time. According to my psychic, If I do not meet Mr. January, I could meet someone in March. With January in full swing, I am covering all my options.

It's all about me

I made the comment once, "It's all about me" and my friend Mark agreed. He was so right that when I turned forty, I wanted to be vain. Today I did: teeth whitening at the dentist.

People who I told said your teeth are white enough. I know, but they were not perfect and I wanted to something for me and the teeth whitening was the answer.

Some people have lasik, liposuction, botox, hair replacement,permament makeup application, breast implants and other needless procedures, to make them happy. I chose something that would hurt the least and was the most economically sound.

I think everyone should make themselves happy first. No matter the size of the ego!

Michele A Mrazik

Yes, the title of today's pithy summary is about me. My name is Michele A. Mrazik and I am the author of this blog.

Last night I read an article about blogs by Will Manley in American Libraries. In it, he was considering starting a blog. That way he could say anything he wanted and not hold back. If you know Will's column, you know it is in jest. Although the article was humorous, he was correct in addressing that one can say anything crude, cruel, scandalous and not be held responsible. He compared it to the KKK hiding underneath the white sheets, but in this case behind the computer screen.

I will speak the truth in this blog and be proud of what I have to say, and wish all the same to all of you as well.

Gee, I sound like a politician.

Personality

When Deborah told me not to get hung up on looks, I thought that's a no brainer. I learned that as a child. Did not need to hear it again.

Then again, all of the men I have gone out with could end up posing for GQ. It is not that I select men for their potential of being a male model. I pick them for their lovely personalities.

Okay, I will listen to Deborah more and choose men who could end up in National Geographic. Wonder if Mr. January likes to read.

Try harder

I was told by the psychic that I have not been trying too hard in finding Mr. Right. I told her that is not true since I did Match.com. She said I would never meet anyone online. This would not be the path for me to take.

For all of you, Heather, Dennis,Andrew, Steven and all of you who have found your soul mates, good for you; I am happy.

I could not go through online dating again. For the few men I did feel a connection, they were rude and thoughtless. Thank you John for not being one of them.

Even though I had a few dates, I did meet a couple of kindred spirits along the way who were there just to give a friendly virtual HI.

Plus,I am not going to spend another $100 on virtual humiliation.

I can not wait until June. It is the date when Match.com will officially delete me from their system. After my six months were over this past June, Match will keep my profile for a year in case I want to come back. Doubt it!

Wonder if Mr. January ever used Match. I guess I'll find out.

The M word

The clairvoyant, Deborah also told me I spend a lot of time thinking about getting married. I was taken aback since the thought of marriage is buried so deep in my subconscious that I forget that I am thinking about it. She was right again.

Of course I am going to be thinking about it. I am forty years old and I would think I would have been married by now. Plus have a few children as well.

OK, God, I feel like Moses being in the desert for forty years.

I am not opposed to marriage. Nobody has asked me! The Lehigh Valley area does not have a lot of prospects. The men I have been with lately all have the extra baggage. There is nothing wrong with baggage, but when it outweighs the advantages of the relationship, you know it is not worth it.

OK, Mr. January, do you think of marriage as much as I do.

Revelation about others

Deborah remarked on how I worry about everyone else. This was at the beginning at the session and it was true because when it was time for questions, I asked about my parents, a few relatives, Monsignor and friends at DeSales.

She said my parents would be fine as well Monsignor K at my church. I did not ask about my brother and his family because he is a non-believer.

The one relative I asked about, Uncle Steve she said, "He would find his way in about two years." Other relatives would have to deal with the problems they have created before things would be okay.

One of my friends at DeSales, Dr.Rob is no longer employed there. She said all would work out well for him. Things must be good, because I heard a couple of weeks ago he was engaged.

Now, I wonder how Mr. January is doing.

Appliance revelation

One thing Deborah, the clairvoyant told me when she took my hand was, "I have a frail immune system." Now if you know me I was having a lot of trouble with my sinuses and dry eye and not feeling my best. Plus when I had gone to see Deborah, I had just had a whirlwind summer: went to Europe, Florida and then moved into my condo; so, of course I was not taking good care of myself.

I said, "I was worried about the condo." She then went on saying it would all be fine, but there would be trouble with an appliance, but nothing major.

Not believing her, in the back of my mind I knew the water heater would need working on; so, I asked her which appliance? Without a moment's hesitation, she said the water heater.

Okay, I believe.


Anyway, hope she is right with Mr. January.

Third prediction

They say things come in threes; so, here is the third prediction from Deborah. She sees a 2 year old boy in my future. The child's parents are not identified. None of my neighbors have children. My relatives do not have a two year old. The boy could be mine or it could be Mr. January.

I was more excited about hearing about the little dog than this prediction. Maybe because a dog is more easily obtainable than a child; however, both bring love.

Interesting to see how this plays out.

MBA challenge

I started my MBA challenge by sitting in on my first class: Marketing and Management. It was a lot of fun. As an icebreaker, the ten of us had to say two truths about ourselves and one lie.

1. I met Oliver North
2. I am a librarian
3. I am a Dallas Cowboy fan

Growing up in Eagle country all my life, there is no way I am a Cowboy fan.

The time went fast since Dr. Jobs made it interesting with his stimulating lecture and power point slides. I know pp can be deadly, but he did not read them word for word like some professors do.

Even though the class moved quickly, there were no single men in attendance. I guess Mr. January has better things to do.

MBA tonight

Tonight I start my MBA class. I am taking "Marketing and Management." This is one of four foundation classes I need to take since my undergrad degree is not in business.

The reason I want to take this class and embark on an MBA is because I need something to do. When I turned 40, I was experiencing a mini life crisis and wanted some new direction. I should have thought of an easier adventure, but hey why not.

I appreciate all the support from my family, colleagues, friends, and cyber buddies.

Let the work begin.

Resolutions 2010

Most of you will say that I do not need to lose weight; however, my friends and I have a bet for six months on who can lose the most weight. The winner will receive two tickets to the State Theater. In my case, if I can lose ten pounds I will be happy. The main reason I am doing this is because it will give me something to do.

I lost ten pounds before. Then I had to go to Bermuda and gain it all back. I know the cruise dining did me in.

Additionally, I am trying to give up caffeine, mainly in hot tea. Today I am off to a good start. I only poured myself one cup of tea so far. Usually in the morning, I might have up to two or three cups.

Wish me luck!

Airbag repair

My new year is shaping up in terms of big bills. I took my car over to Gilboy for the airbag light and an oil change. I finally broke down and took it in for repair of the airbag after three months of having it not turn off.

Besides the airbag and oil change, I needed new windshield wipers, shocks, and brake fluid replacement. The total around $711.00

Along with these problems, they noticed my cracked fender. There was a man from Daku auto body there who said I might be able to place an insurance claim for it. He also gave me an estimate on how much it might cost me: $2,700.00. This price tag is the main reason it is not repaired.

Other than that, life is good!

Night at the Sands

If it is my year to shine, why did not I win at the Sands? My mom, dad, my friend Stephanie J and I went to the casino after church last night. I organized it and we were all hoping to win.

My mom and Stephanie really did not want to come, but they were the big winners of the night. My mom won $331 on a .25 slot machine and Stephanie won $771 on a .01 Yoda slot machine.

Even though my dad and I did not win, we were treated to the Irish Pub by my mom.

Maybe next time I should start a mantra of not wanting to go to the casino and maybe I might win!

Prediction #2 - Little Dog

Another prediction was that there is a little dog in my future. Not ever having a dog, this will be interesting to see if it pans out.

I have never owned a dog; the main reason not having the time to take care of it. I would hate to see the animal at home while I would be working all day. Plus taking care of animals is comparable to raising children. You have to feed them, clean them, take them to the doctor when they are sick and entertain them.

I know animals like children give you a lot in return namely love and companionship.

If I do see myself with a dog, it would definitely be a small one. I would not want a big one that it would overpower me. My friend Chrys has an Argentinian Dogo named Duncan. He is a lovable creature and weighs as much as me. When I first met him, I was afraid; however, it did not last as when I visit, I play fetch with one of his toys and get a lick on the legs.

Who knows I might not purchase a pet and the man I meet in January might have a small one. Then again you do not see most men with little dogs.

If you think I'm going to have a dog in my future let me know. Also if you would like to guess the type of dog it will be, drop me a line as well.

Mr. January - Prediction #1

One thing Deborah told me is that I would encounter my soulmate in January. I would meet him at a church function but it would not be at my church. This man would also share my same religious beliefs.

She also said, if I would become involved with someone in the fall of 2009, I would become too preoccupied and miss him. " Since this was August, I was not going to let my chances to date be diminished with the thought of maybe finding someone next year.

I am excited about finding someone this month. If you would like to throw out a date when I will meet him or the name, please go right ahead. Maybe I'll take the lucky person out to lunch.

The countdown begins.

January 2010 Finally Here

When I turned 40 in August, I went with my friend, Chrys to see a psychic, Deborah Edwards in the Poconos. I thought it would be fun and Chrys' mom, Joan had seen Debbie a few months prior to our reading and vouched for her psychic ability. She was able to connect Joan with her twin sister who died more than twenty years ago.

With the endorsement from Joan, I was game.

Chrys and I met Debbie at a resort. Nothing fancy, but the atmosphere was better than something on Atlantic City's boardwalk. In A.C. I feel most of those psychic readers are charlatans and are only there to take your money which does not make me comfortable in the least.

I was the first one to have my reading done. Before any predictions were given, Debbie created a character profile by only holding my hand, no questions were asked.

This is what she said about my personality:

• Frail immune system - could have been the fact that I had a whirldind summer and did not have a chance to rest.

• I was in the teaching profession - Being a librarian I do some teaching
• My position suits me
  
• Parents are proud of me
• Always wanting to help everyone else before myself
• Nervous and hyper type

For the skeptics, these can come across as vague; however, she just gained this information by only holding my hand. Plus, when Debbie read my friend Chrys, she told her," that you are a much different read from your friend." This indicated that each of us are unique and the profiles would not have made any sense if Chrys and my profiles were reversed or the same.



Deborah only does appointments. She can be reached at 570-595-2792